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It was fun to plan the details and put everything together. The best part was that neither Jacob nor Colin had any idea that it was going to happen. All 12 boys in their class were invited and every single one of them ended up coming, plus an extra brother, and each of our 2 extra boys. It’s a good thing Ben & Jordan have a little extra space in their apartment because we sure needed it with the 17 boys & 4 adults that we there! Jordan and I were a little outnumbered that night! It was definitely crazy, but a lot of fun too.

Colin & Ben had picked up Jacob to go get some pizza and come over to play. As soon as they left, I loaded up the car and we headed over. It was fun to watch Jacob and Colin walk in and have everyone yell “Surprise!”

We had a fun and yummy dinner, played some games, sang happy birthday, had a lego cake that I made, and mostly tried to manage the fun chaos. I’ll tell you what, 5-6 year old boys are crazy! It was a wild, but fun and memorable night. I’m glad that both Colin and Jacob had a fun surprise birthday party!


Jacob turned 6 years old today! He’s really getting into the birthdays and loved making food plans down to the last detail. I guess for a 6-year old boy the food details are some of the most important! For breakfast we enjoyed crepes with strawberries & whipped cream- we had to get up a little earlier to still be on time for school, but it was worth it! We took cupcakes to school to share with his class, and after school we took him to get his free birthday ice cream cone. For dinner we had his requested fish (pan seared tilapia- thanks Teresa!), homemade mashed potatoes & gravy, and vegetables.
Without me knowing, Jacob had invited a bunch of his friends to come over that night to celebrate; but without Jacob knowing, we were planning a surprise birthday party the next night so I had to explain that his friends couldn’t come over because it was a school night.

We had a little celebration that night with our family. Jacob opened his presents and was excited with his new telescope, missile launcher, movie, shirt, book, and BYU jersey- that was a favorite and it sure made Jeff happy! The boys even braved the 15 degree weather that night to go try out the telescope outside.

After making cupcakes for his class that day, and knowing that I was making a cake the next day for the surprise party, I didn’t really want to make another cake just for our family- most likely it would just go to waste so I was glad when Jacob agreed that donuts sounded like a fun alternative. He picked out 6 donuts and we put them in the shape of a 6 with candles in them for him to blow out. It was perfect & we didn’t have to worry about a bunch of leftover cake.
It’s hard to believe that our Jacob is already 6. When he woke up his first words were, “I’m almost 7!” I hope he’ll slow down and just enjoy being 6 for a little while! He’s grown up so much and is such a great oldest child. He’s a great example to his younger brothers and we’re so grateful for him!*
As an added bonus, the 30% off coupon also applied to the cute going-home outfit that I found which made it cost about $10 (which is more than I usually like to pay for an outfit, but you only get to choose one going-home outfit & I figured it was worth it). Since the total amount was over $75, I got free shipping as well. I love it when you can find great deals! I still have a lot more to do & things to get before we'll be ready for a baby, but it's nice to know that a few things are taken care of!


Somehow amid the craziness of the holidays, I forgot to write about Jacob. He lost his first tooth on December 23rd. He told me about a week beforehand that he had a loose tooth, but I didn’t think it could really be loose yet. Sure enough though, his bottom tooth was loose and the new one was already coming in. One night when the boys were brushing their teeth, Jeff asked to see it and just pulled it out real quick. Jacob was pretty excited, especially because he got a little visit from the tooth fairy that night. I can’t believe he’s lost a tooth already! Now one of his top front teeth is also loose and I imagine it won’t be too long before we have a boy with a cute toothless smile. I guess with him turning 6 this month that probably goes right along with the schedule. It was just another reminder of how quickly our kids are growing up, even if we’re not quite ready for it!
Showing off the new bottom tooth!


After weeks of high temperatures in the mid 20’s, we got lucky with a beautiful holiday Monday on the 18th. It was sunny, beautiful & almost warm at 54 degrees! The boys didn't even need their big coats, a jacket worked great. Of course the perfect way to spend the day is enjoying being outside!

The boys were able to get out their roller blades & bikes and spent a couple hours playing outside. One of their favorite things was to hold onto Jeff’s hands while he ran as fast as he could through the parking lot. They also liked going to the top of the hill in the parking lot and riding down to the sidewalks. Even Matthew is a little speed demon- he would chase after the boys on his little tractor bike as fast as he could go & also loved going to the top of the hill to ride down as fast as the bike would carry him. I’m glad he didn’t ever tip over because that could have been a bit painful! He just really thinks he’s one of the big boys and loves to do whatever they’re doing.
It was so fun to see them having a great time together outside. Jacob and Caleb were only sad when I told them we had to stop so they could go to their swimming lessons. I’m hoping we get to enjoy many more days like this one this winter!

On Friday, the 15th, Jeff headed up the annual high priest dinner. It was a nice evening with members of the high priest group. I guess that’s pretty much self-explanatory, but at the end of the night I just couldn’t help but feel for gratitude and love for these wonderful people in our ward. We missed some people who weren’t able to be there Friday night. There are some truly remarkable people with amazing stories. I feel so grateful to be able to be surrounded by them. At one point we were playing a game, sharing little bits of information/stories about ourselves with the group. Brother Davis bore a very sweet & sincere testimony during his turn that nearly brought me to tears. I just can’t help but feel so grateful for these sweet people and so touched by their faith and strong testimonies of the gospel. We are really going to miss so many people, and are so grateful we’ve had the chance to spend nearly 8 years, our whole married lives, in such a place as this!*
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